Well she sounds, umm, unpleasant (I'm editing - lol)! I don't mind sharing, but when it's not reciprocated, well that just stinks. You can't give away all your info, especially not to a random person on Etsy. You work hard, and so should they!
I will have to try Joann's again - I was there with my 2 youngest kiddos, so I was a bit distracted!
Next time it will be a solo trip!