You are trying to make one of the more difficult bows, I would suggest sarting off with something easier and I think any other bow on that site would be easier than that one!
It took me a long time to get the twisted boutique bow down, there are some ladies here that have been making bows for years and still can't figure it out. So don't worry it is not just you! LOL
Try this, it might be a little easier and has a similar look: http://www.girlythingsbows.com/perky_loops.html
Or if you are visual person there is a video of the boutique style: http://www.girlythingsbows.com/video_tutorials.html