For mine- I don't know how to explain it.. but here goes. There will be 2 full sides. Pinch the first set of ribbon, so the outsides are pointed up- and then repeat on the other side.. so its 2 pinches that come together. Does that make any sense at all? LOL! So instead of doing just one pinch- seperate the 2 loops, pinch, then bring together.
(this is why I don't do tutorials..lol!)