I worked at a childcare center and an infant in my room had beautiful but simple bows that her mother made her. I simply took one of her bows apart one day and figured it out from there.
What did the Mom say about the bow being taken apart?
That rubbed me the wrong way, sorry had to ask.
Reminds me of the story of an preschool teacher who would always look at the child's clothing tags and "comment" on the brands, until one day the father wrote "mind your own business" on one of the tags, she never looked at the child"s tags again