There are several places you can buy the headbands online and on ebay. just do a search for crochet headbands. Somebody also said they found them at Family Dollar - a set of 3 for $1! I got some and they have worked just great. If you want to add a flower I would suggest that you wrap the seam with some ribbon (either satin or grosgrain) with hot glue or fabri-tac (which you can buy at wal-mart for like $5). Then you can hot glue your flower on. I have searched for cute flowers and have had a hard time. You can just buy silk flowers from a craft store (like Michaels). You would take apart the head of the flower and hot glue it all back together. Then glue the flower to the headband! Very simple. Also, you could make a loop on your headband (so you wouldn't glue the ribbon around the entire thing - just the back) and then attach the flower to a clip. That way you can interchange what flowers go on the headband! tada. Hope that helps.