Ok start like a regular basic bow, but make the tail that is the end come up and to the left instead of being inside the bow center. Then, make the second loop the bottom left instead of across from the first one. Make the third loop the bottom right (across from the one you just did), and the fourth loop go behind the rest of the bow and be on the top left with the tail coming out the right side. Fold the center and tie off as normal. Does that make sense? (I can see why she said she'd need a video, lol)!